Lyfe is what you make it they say, live your life they say, but the say a lot but do they really mean it? You will meet people who tell you to live for you, and to please yourself. Once you begin to do just that, those same people tend to have a problem with you doing just what they said.
In July I will be turning 40, such a milestone for me. As I reflect on my past I start to realize, I’ve done a lot in my lyfe to make those around me happy. Taking control of how you do things for others is a very hard task. It took me some time but I think I got it now. Once you sit and ask yourself, who really has you when you’re in need? Then you will realize you need to stop making yourself “too” available for others.
When someone is in need they call you can I borrow, I need, do you have, do you know someone, can you see if you can do/get such and such for me. Well hell can you ask those same people to do the same for you? Remember asking is one thing but them doing for you is another. Learn to pull yourself away from those who only need you for the better of themselves. Granted everyone needs someone, but if you won’t gain anything from the help you give be mindful of just that. Everyone comes into your lyfe for a season and for a reason. Learn the lesson that will be taught to you and grow.